As many of you know, I’m currently pregnant with my second bambino(a). And of course, I’m always looking for ways to keep the spice in my marriage during this time. I feel like it’s important for pregnant women to maintain their sexy inside and outside the bedroom. With all the morning sickness, cankles and weight gain that can be hard. So, I was tinkering with my profile on the BlogHer website and scrolling through some of the blog posts when I came across 4 Tips to Spice Up Your Sex Life.
You know we see headlines like these all the time on the cover of Cosmo, Marie Claire and other women magazines. And I’m always interested to see if they ever put new tips on the list or just rephrase the tips from the previous month. So, curious me decided to click on the post and read what this author had to say. Here was her list of suggestions:
1. Talk Dirty-Ok, most couples do that anyway. I think we all have surprised ourselves and our mates with some sassy bedroom talk.
2. Act Out Your Fantaties-No shocker here. This tip makes everybody’s list.
3. Have Sex With Someone New-Hmmm…yea, this one I will certainly not be trying. Furthermore, I don’t condone sexual wrecklessness or adultary. I’m a Christian and the Bible is pretty clear about this. And even if you’re not a Christian, what about having respect for your body and your mate. I totally didn’t get how sleeping with someone new would enhance a couple’s sex life?
I mean honestly, I wouldn’t be feeling too sexy if my husband told me that he needed to screw some other woman for him to be attracted me or stay interested. Sure, we’ve seen this stuff on Sex & the City and read about it in fiction books, but that’s just it. Scenerios like these are meant to be just for entertainment, not something you ought to go out and try in your real life. But to each his/her own. If sleeping with other people is what takes to keep your relationship afloat go ahead. You’ll have to live with the consequences-emotional, physical and mental-of your actions.
4. Explore BDSM Communities-Hmmm…idk about getting into that hardcore bondage and pain stuff.
So, what do you all think? What has happened in the last couple of days to make you say “Hmmm…”