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Bible 365: Week 45
Hey y’all! I’m literally running on fumes today. Saturday both kiddies got runny noses and I thought it was just allergies since the Mr had done some dusting. But by Sunday night JJ was coughing and sneezing his head off. I gave him some medicine and it helped a little bit at first, but then he just kept waking up every hour until like 4 AM.I gave him some Benadryl because his nose was really runny and I didn’t want his skin underneath to get raw. That helped him sleep a little bit. He woke up again at 7 and then slept until 9 and dozed off again until 10. So, to say that we are both tired is an understatement. I feel exhausted. I’ve been lysoling and bleaching already because this is usually the time when Moo gets sick. So, hopefully we’ll keep these cold germs down to a minimum and nobody else catches it.Now, for our Week 45 recap. You know if pastors and ministers wrote open letters to their churches like Paul did in 1 & 2 Corinthians, I think that a lot churches would be better off. Sunday sermons just aren’t enough sometimes. And Paul’s letters weren’t always negative. For the most part they were very encouraging and motivating.Paul was also very blunt in his letters. He no qualms about telling them about their shortcomings and letting them know that they if they were going to boast about having their stuff together, then they needed to make sure it was true. As a disciple Paul went through a lot. I’m sure a lot of it was based on the things he did in his past when he was Saul. Not everyone was willing to forgive and believe he had changed.Reading the books of Corinthians reminded me that we should take care to not come off as know-it-alls. “And if anyone thinks that he knows anything, he knows nothing yet as he ought to know” (1 Corinthians 8:2). At the end of the day, only God knows everything. There’s so much that happens that is beyond our comprehension as human beings. The one thing that we can and should know like the back of our hand is the Bible.That’s one of the reasons I did this Bible 365 challenge. I had so many questions about the Bible. I can definitely say that a lot of them have been answered now. I have more clarity as to the life I am expected to live. And contrary to what the world thinks, living a Christian lifestyle isn’t nearly as boring as people think. I can still have fun and live life to the fullest. I just have to make sure the things that I’m doing to do so are pleasing to God and not hurting others.“But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified” (1 Corinthians 9:27). You can’t be saying one thing and living another thing. There is no do as I say and not as I do when it comes to living right. Hypocrisy and being a Christian do not go hand in hand. Paul knew that. That’s why God changed his name from Saul to Paul.God gave him a fresh start not only with his name but also with changing his actions. And I’m sure that there were times when Paul was going through trials that he felt like the people weren’t listening to him. There are times in my life when I feel like throwing in the towel. But 1 Corinthians 15:58 says, “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.” Paul kept moving forward because he knew that there was a greater purpose and a greater reward awaiting for him. So, if Paul can keep going on after being stoned, beat and jailed, surely we can do the same.Let me just say that I’m glad certain laws of the church have changed. Because sadly, back in the day women didn’t have much voice in the church. In fact, they didn’t have a voice at all. 1 Corinthians 14:34 instructed husbands to “Let your woman keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive as the law also says.” Kudos to women who lived back then because often times it seems like they were undervalued and didn’t have many rights. I’m way too opinionated to have lived back then I think.“But this I say: He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:6-7). This is scripture that eludes a lot of people. Why? Because most of us tithe and give offerings because we feel obligated to do so. And we here that if we have that mindset, then that’s what’s we’ll reap. We’ll reap only the things that our necessary for our wellbeing. Now, on the flip side, cheerful givers who give because they WANT to reap abundance.They reap beyond what they need. God doesn’t want us to feel obligated to do things. But rather He would be prefer that we want to them according to our own free will. I’m not going to lie there are certain things that I’m working on changing my attitude about when it comes to my faith. In order to be truly blessed I have to adjust my vision and make myself more willing.Lastly, don’t forget that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. “Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:10)!Do think women should allowed to have different roles in the church (i.e.-ministers, teachers, etc)?Week 46 Readings11/11: Galatians 1-211/12: Galatians 3-411/13: Galatians 5-611/14: Ephesians 1-311/15: Ephesians 4-611/16: Philippians 111/17: Philippians 2 -
Playing Catch Up
This whole time change thing has my body out of sorts. The clock says 10 PM but to my body says it’s 11 PM. Throw in the fact Moo has been staying up late every night, JJ has been extra cranky during the day and I feel like I’m a doing a million things but not seeing any fruits from my labors and you get me spending today play a game of catch up.While I haven’t completely neglected my novel, the only time I have to really work on it is at night after I finally get Moo down. By that time I’m so drained my creative juices feel nonexistent. And I meant to finish the chapter I was working on last night but I fell asleep. Friday, I did make a little bit progress, but ended up falling asleep on top of my glasses and bent over the laptop. I’m so glad that screen on this thing folds all the way down because I would have broken it.I did manage to push the top of one of my lens out. And now I can’t get it to go back in. I’ve tried pushing it back in and almost snapped my frame. So, now I have to fit in a visit to the eye doctor. Some of my friends have already finalized their Thanksgiving menus, taken recipes for test drives and more. I just started looking at turkey prices. I do have my menu finalized though. (Look for a post about it this week).I also caught up on some reading this morning. In January, I set a goal to read 150 books this year. Sadly, I haven’t even read 50. I’ve even been slacking on reading to the kiddies. So, the plan is read at least book every night. And for me, I’ll be completely a minimum of two books a week. I’m determined to at least finish this year out with 50 books read and yes, I’m including the books I read to the kids. A book is a book.I caught up with a cousin of mine and found out he’s been living here in the Queen City for 8 years!! 8 year y’all and I didn’t even know it until today when he told me on Facebook. He actually thought I had just moved here. The truth is I’ve been here longer than he has. I haven’t a clue how we haven’t run into each other at the mall or the movies.Do y’all know how much stuff and how many important events went down in these past 8 years that he could have been a part of. He missed out on being at my college graduation, visiting me in the hospital after I had the kiddies and hanging out for the holidays. All because we didn’t the other person was here. I’ve never been more thankful for Facebook than I am today.We’ve exchanged numbers and I’m looking forward to the kids meeting him and reconnecting. He’s 4 years older than me, but we grew up together and always had fun with my other cousins and siblings at family cookouts. Then he went off to college and we lost touch. Looking forward to reuniting though.I’m also catching up on my Bible study because tomorrow is Monday, which mean my Bible 365 post needs to be done. Well, I’m off. See y’all on Monday!What have you been catching up on this week?
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If I Were A Mean Girl
I like to think of myself as a nice person. Wait, let’s rewind that. I AM a nice person. How do I know that? Where to start? I hold doors open for others whether they’re coming in or coming out behind me. When I’m out and about I offer a friendly smile and hello to strangers that pass.I give back to local charities. I give words of encouragement when I see someone is having a bad day. If I have money to spare, I stop and give the money to the first person I see beside road with a sign. That little bit of extra change goes a long way for them. I’m polite in my speech and treatment of others. You get the point.However, I’m starting to think that folks are mistaken my niceness for being a flashing a sign that says ‘Pushover!’ About a week or two ago, we found out that our neighbors have a dog. How did we find out? Well, the first clue came when I was rushing to make it to JJ’s doctor appointment and I stepping in dog poop! Talk about being pissed.Traffic here is unpredictable and I was frustrated that I had to unbuckle the kids, herd them back in the house, clean my shoes, round them up again, set the alarm and then drive like a mad woman through traffic to make it on time. Sure enough the next day, I looked out my window and there one of my neighbors was with a little miniature something (I couldn’t get a really good look to determine the breed, but it was super small) taking a crap right on the walkway.She must have saw me moving in the window, getting to knock on it because she looked up. I nodded down at the fresh poop and then looked back her. (I’ve got silent communication down to a science. When you’ve had to send your child those silent looks or nods, it’s all practice helping you master your skill and use it on others). She retrieved a baggie from her jacket pocket and picked it up. Satisfied, I closed the blinds and went on my way.Now, one would think that said neighbor would know that I don’t like dog poop on my side of the yard. So, please explain why I almost stepped in dog poop again today? And not once but twice! I went outside to put out the recycling and trash and there were three medium sized piles of fresh dog poop to greet me! Talk about being beyond pissed.Source I shouldn’t be surprised though. You know why? I’m too nice. I should have gone beyond the silent communication the first time I caught her dog pooping on our side of the yard. My neighbors are young (college age), but still I thought my silent nod & look were easy to understand. Apparently not folks.But as my baby brother would say, “They gone learn today” that I’m serious about this dog poop. I’m not a mean girl, but if I was you know what I do? I would have let our a loud ‘Oh hell no!’ Then I would have marched back inside the apartment and dug out my mini shovel. I would have deposited the first pile of poop on the hood of their car. The second pile I would have left right in front of their door. And the third pile, I have would bribed a fast running person with money to knock on their door and give them a poop facial once they opened it!Y’all already know I’ve had it to a third dimension and back with this apartment. I’ve been understanding of the neighbors loud noise from their impromptu college get togethers, their company parking in our space when we’re gone and more. But this I will NOT tolerate. I remember being fresh out of high school and in college. I didn’t disrespect people’s property though and I won’t stand for mine being disrespected or invaded.Luckily for my neighbors I’m not a mean girl. I know Jesus and after venting to the Mr, I’ve calmed down (not enough to not write this post though). I’m to collect the poop in a bag and leave it with a note in front of their door. (They’ve been missing since a little scuffle broke at one of their parties two days ago). But to make sure they get the message, when I know they’re back, I’m sending the police over to have a little chat with them.There are rules about here about pets and pet owners allowing their animals to use the bathroom in other people’s yards or on public property. Those violations are punishable by law and they need to know that. They also need to know that I mean business. We might be flying this coop soon, but we haven’t left it yet. And I’m not going to be hop scotching over poop to get my trash and recycling cans or to our car!How would you handle this situation? Would you go Mean Girls on your neighbors if they did this?
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5 On Friday
Hello Friday! It’s after midnight and I’m up with a certain little guy who should have been asleep hours ago. Guess that afternoon gave him more energy than I thought. And maybe, the fact that he had a sippy cup of sweet tea didn’t help either. Oh, well…I thought I’d use this time while I’m up waiting for him to fall asleep to share my five randoms this week.
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Source I can’t decide what we’re having for Thanksgiving. I want to go nontraditional, but my family isn’t having that. Moo has already put in her request for pie, collard greens and green beans topped with French’s Fried Onions (she can’t have the cream of mushroom due to allergies). So, for now my Thanksgiving menu just has turkey, collard greens and pie on it. Oh, I can’t forget about the Mr’s stuffing. He’d have a cow if I didn’t make some and a brown gravy to go along with it.{~TWO~}
Source Kellan Lutz is so hot! I saw this picture on floating around Twitter this week. I was tempted to set it as my main wallpaper on my phone, but that space is reserved for the kiddies. Maybe, I can set for my lock screen? Anyways, he was always my first choice to play Christian Grey in the Fifty Shades movie. And with that role already filled, I have him pegged as my first choice to play Gideon Cross in the Crossfire series TV movies.I don’t even know how they’re going to make the Crossfire series PG enough to air on TV. Maybe, they’ll be on HBO or something. If you haven’t read the Crossfire series by Sandra Day, you should. If you liked Fifty Shades of Grey, then you’ll like this series too.{~THREE~}
Source Remember, last week when I said that I was going to step out the box in terms of natural hair styles? Well, I attempted the style above and it did not come out well. My hair refused to lay right. It was just frustrating. I’m on to the next style though. Hopefully, I’ll have better luck with it.{~FOUR~}
Source Christmas movies have officially started playing on Hallmark and Lifetime! I love it. I watched The Christmas Blessing last night and it had me balling like a baby. Seriously, this movie is so touching and so emotional at the end. You’ll definitely need a box of tissues.{~FIVE~}Seeing all of my family and friends with their new bundles of joy has given me Baby Fever. Not going to lie a part of me would love to be pregnant by Christmas, but the Mr and I agreed to start trying the end of next year. Plus, we might be looking into adoption since our chances of having another baby with a lot of allergies is pretty high. I can’t even wrap my head around having three children with severe food and environmental allergies.Also, I know the Mr has said he’ll be good after baby number three, but I kind of want twins. That would put us at four kids. Just something about having a big family that comforts me. Now if only we could win the lottery to buy for their college educations!Don’t forget you can catch me on these other hot spots
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Thankful Thursday
Happy Thursday! This has been a pretty good week. I want to jump right in and say that I’m thankful that today marks my first official week of participating in NaBloPoMo and that so far I haven’t missed a day of posting here on YUMMommy! I’m enjoying the challenge of deciding to what to write about everyday outside of my weekly posts. Looking forward to week 2!And JJ had his official evaluation on Monday. Our case worker came over with a speech therapist and a behavioral therapist. They watched how JJ interacted me, Moo and themselves. It was almost like one big play date. I’m thankful to report that they are hopeful that we can get him talking soon. He doesn’t show any signs of autism which was my main concern as well as the Mr’s.After the evaluation, I was able to tell them two goals I wanted to work on with JJ for the next few weeks. So, my first goal is to get him back to saying mommy and daddy. The speech therapist gave me a few exercises that I can do with him to help reach this goal. So far so good. We’ll be doing speech therapy twice a week. I wanted to start with a more aggressive routine first and then gradually wean him once we get him to where he needs to be.I’m thankful that the Mr has been doing training this week and has been able to be at home with us at night. The kids have loved having him home at night. And I can tell that he’s loved being able to spend more time with them too. They wrestle and watch movies until their hearts are content. It also gives me some time alone and time to cook dinner without two little busy bodies in the way.What’s on your gratitude list?
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My Favorite Fall TV Shows
One of the things I love about fall besides the cooler weather and awesome color change of the trees, is the return of fall TV shows. There’s nothing quite like TV in the fall. Reality TV shows seem to reign supreme during the summer, but my preference is scripted TV. So, here’s a look at what I’m watching.If didn’t know, I’m huge fan of DC and Marvel comics. I’m not going to lie, I didn’t give this show a second glance during its first season. Then, I show it on Netflix one restless night and decided to give it a watch. This is my new obsession. I’ve almost completed watching the entire first season and I’m enjoying this season so far. If you’re into action movies or comic book heroes, this is the show for you!It’s got action, romance and Stephen Amell is not at all bad on the eyes ladies. He spent a lot time in the first season minus his shirt in a few episodes!Calling all Sex & the City fans! If you missed the first season of this show, you definitely don’t want to miss out on the second. It’s nice being able to follow the journey of how Carrie Bradshaw became the ultra fabulous adult Carrie Bradshaw that we currently know. And the fashion is amazing! I’ve already seen more than one or two looks from the show that I wish I could have in my closet.Ian Somerhalder and Paul Wesley. What more of a reason do you need to watch this show? Yes, I’m still obsessed with the love triangle that is Elena, Damon and Stefan. First she was with Stefan. Then she got turned into a vampire and fell in love with Damon. You just don’t know who she’s going to be dating by the end of this season. So, far I haven’t missed an episode and if you’re a fan of Twilight and or The Vampire Diaries book series, you’ll love the show as well.If you have an interest for mysteries and crime then Castle is the show for you. My baby sister got me hooked on this show and I haven’t been able to stop watching it. It’s just the right amount of crime but mixed with a lot humor. There’s even some romance. I’ve had a blast watching writer Richard Castle tag along with his cop buddies as research for his crime novels. What’s amazing is that Castle is just as good at solving the crimes as the detectives are.This Vampire Diaries spin-off is awesome, fast paced and action packed. I figured that Klaus would have his own show because he kind of burnt all of his bridges in Mystic Falls. This is the shows first season and I can already see it coming back for a second.I stumbled across this show channel surfing one Sunday night. As a Harry Potter fan, I’ve always enjoyed anything to do with magic. It’s nice to have the fairy tale of being able to use a magic spell to change your life or the lives of others. However, this show is nothing like Harry Potter. It’s strictly for adults!There’s mystery, secrets, and steamy love scenes as this family of witches work to break the curses that have plagued their family for centuries.What are you watching on TV this fall?
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Office Daydreaming
It’s official, I need an office. And I don’t mean a space to just escape to or hide out in. When I first started this blog, it was a just space to share my story and find support. Here I am three years later and I’ve been featured in two magazines, been recognized on the street and getting approached my major brands to work with them. The success that my blog has reach is amazing to me.I’m currently finding myself having to hunt down space to store files of important papers and emptying my closet to hold make room for packages. I’ve realized that while a laptop is great, there’s nothing like having a desktop, especially when said laptop just dies on you. Let’s not even mention the fact that I’ve been looking into getting one of those heavy duty all-in-one printers. Plus, my old desk is beyond being on it’s last leg. It’s literally being held up by a table and a wall.So, what better to do than daydream about my dream office with a little help from Pinterest? Here’s a little inspiration for what my future office will look like.
Pinterest This will be my reminder to keep pushing forward on those days when I want to tell myself, “You can finish that tomorrow.”
Pinterest I saw this and immediately heard Slim Thug playing in my head. (Google it if you’re not familiar.)
Pinterest I definitely need to see pictures of my darling family, especially the Mr and the kids. They have given me so much motivation, encouragement and inspiration. Seeing them is always the highlight of my day and an instant mood lifter!
Pinterest Love the idea of using this as my desk chair. However, it definitely need wheels on it and be able to swivel around.
Pinterest I would love to have an L-shaped desk with this design carved into the back and side panels. Not sure if I would leave the natural color of the wood exposed or if I would paint it. I would definitely love to have a lucite top with rounded corners on it though.
Pinterest Love the shape of this chair, but would definitely change the fabric on it. I’d probably even add longer legs on it so it wouldn’t be so low to the ground. Don’t want anybody struggling to get up.
Pinterest Love this! Silver is just is just so much more elegant and stylish to me.
Pinterest Love the idea of being able to hideaway certain office equipment. This is both an aesthetic feature and a security feature because you could always add a side lock.Not a bad start so far, right? Not sure what color scheme I would go with but I like colors that are light and refreshing. Nothing too dark or somber.Do you have a vision of a dream office? What’s one thing that would be a must have?
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Bible 365: Week 44
This weekend, we decided to get a head start on our Christmas decorating and take advantage of the Mr being home. We put up the Christmas tree and decorated the refrigerator! Moo and JJ were just too excited about the tree. And I’m happy we put it up too because I have some of my closet space back now that I’m not harboring presents in it. I know, I know it’s a tad bit too early for Christmas trees for some folks, but it’s just the right timing for us.Moving along, just a little over three weeks left in the Bible 365 Challenge! It’s tempting to double up on my reading so that I can finish faster, but I’m staying the course. In week 44, we finished the book of Romans and started 1 Corinthians. I have to say that I’m enjoying reading what God had to say through Paul (formerly Saul).There were quite a few scriptures that stuck out to me like Romans 5: 3-4, “And not only that, but we also [find] glory in tribulations knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope.” If you’ve been reading YUMMommy for the last few months, then you know that we’ve been going through our share of tribulations. However, I can testify that going through these difficult times have definitely motivated me to keep pushing forward. I do feel like my hope in God is stronger. I know it sounds like it should be the opposite way around, but it’s not. I feel my faith getting stronger and I’m remember not to take things for granted!“For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23). If I ever I would be interested in getting a tattoo, this is what I would want. This scripture is constant reminder that we need to work hard at walking as closely to God’s commands as possible. I don’t know about you but death in the biblical sense is something to be fearful of. I want to experience external life and all the joys that Heaven has to offer.And no matter what you’re going through remember that “Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us” (Romans 8:37). With God, we conquer and overcome anything. Since starting this blog, I’ve had to overcome grief, letting go of friends and not wallowing in Mommy Guilt. I’ve learned to take my problems to God in prayer and trust His guidance.“So then faith comes by hearings, and hearing by the word of God” (Romans 10:17). Did you know people are more likely to believe what they hear or read than what they see? It’s true. Why do you think these gossips magazines and blogs are so successful?! Many of Jesus’ critics couldn’t understand how so many people who had never even witnessed His miracles still believe Him to be the son of God. It’s because they heard the prophecies and later heard of the miracles. We have to trust that Bible is really the word of God and then put those words into action.Not too long ago, I had a friend ask if I would still be friends with someone cheated on their husband just for the sake of cheating? Her husband didn’t cheat on her, worked hard, helped out around the house, respected her, but she felt bored and was now exploring her options. My answer was and will always be no. The company we keep will eventually become a direct reflection of ourselves at some point. For this very reason, Romans 16: 17 says, “But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner- not even to eat with such a person.”Now if God doesn’t even want us sharing a lunch date with people who have instilled in their minds that sinning is ok, you know I’m not going to be friends with one. There’s a difference between people who sin and recognize that what they did was wrong compared to those who sin and see it as the only way to live their lives. Their evilness can rub off on you. Before too long, you’ll find yourself doing things that you would have once saw as wrong but will be brainwashed into thinking is really ok. Exactly, why I keep my circle small and why I’m never afraid to let go of friendship if it’s for the greater good.Lastly, remember that you are VALUABLE!! “You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men” (1 Corinthians 7:23). The price at which we were purchased was the crucifixion of Jesus. And Jesus did not die on the cross for us to confirm to the rules of society! We are way more precious to be put into molds. Dare to be different. This is part of the reason I talk so openly about my faith on this blog. It’s considered taboo and too many bloggers value to opinions and page views of readers to even admit that they are Christian.I don’t! I know my worth and I’m not selling out to ANYBODY except Jesus. If my faith preference makes me person that you don’t want to get to know then so be it. I refuse to become a slave to our society and its standards.How do you stay positive in the mist of trials and tribulations?Week 45 Readings11/04: 1 Corinthians 8-1111/05: 1 Corinthians 12-1411/06: 1 Corinthians 15-1611/07: 2 Corinthians 1-211/08: 2 Corinthians 3-711/09: 2 Corinthians 8-911/10: 2 Corinthians 10-13
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Black Girls Who Rock
It’s Sunday night and I’m sitting here in bed with Moo watching Black Girls Rock on BET. This award show is so very important because it’s not often that you see Black women celebrated in a positive light. Too often when we’re in the media it’s for the wrong the reason. In today’s society it’s so easy to hop on YouTube or one these ‘hood’ sites and see people glorifying us instead for girl on girl violence, sliding up and down a pole half naked or worst. So, shows like Black Girls Rock are very necessary to remind us that we are something greater and that we need start holding ourselves to higher standards as Black women as well as teaching our children do the same with the examples we set forth.I mean let’s face it lip service is no longer an effective deterrent. If we want our Black girls to be able to walk these streets with their heads held high and to face the challenges of the world without falling victim to its temptations then we need to first commit ourselves to living such a lifestyle. In my opinion, Black girls who rock do the following:
1-They Know Their Worth: It’s so too easy to caught up in trying to be part of the cool crowd. Know your worth and don’t partake in things situations that are degrading to you as person, especially as a woman of color. One of the best lessons my father ever instilled in me before leaving was that if I didn’t stand for something, I would fall for anything. Don’t fall ladies!
2-They Value Inner Beauty More Than Outer Beauty: Looking nice is important, but at the end of the day who cares that you’re wearing vintage Chanel if you’re a nightmare to be around? True beauty comes from within. True beauty is about having a lovable personality and keeping a positive state of mind.
3-They Love The Skin They’re In: I grew up in a household in with a light skinned mom and my dad is dark skinned. Most of my siblings are like me and are the darker the end of the different shades of being Black. Because of that we observed how certain family members and strangers treated us different from our lighter skinned family members. I’ve heard people say how good it was the mom’s darker children had good looks because we’d be too dark otherwise to attract mates or be accepted society.
Hell, I was even told during my intern at a very popular and upscale mall here in the QC that I was too dark being there. However, my parents, my siblings and my aunts on my mom’s side did a great job of teaching us to love to differences in our skin tones. And as a mom of children with different skin tones, I’m definitely working hard make sure they both love the skin that they’ve been blessed with. We’re all beautiful no matter what shade of brown we are! Love it, live it , own it.
4-They Know That Education Is Important: Education is the key that opens doors. At the end of day, education is more than just sitting in a classroom or reading a book. There’s hands-on experience. Education shows that you have the discipline and desire to learn which is very important if you plan on having a career or making a living. Education is about experiencing new things whether it be foods, cultures or places. Educate yourselves sistas!
5-They Are Caring: Remember, that someone has cared enough to give you life! That in and of itself is reason enough to be caring and kind to others. But most importantly, imagine if we lived in a world where everyone only cared about themselves. We wouldn’t have organ donors, blood drives, Locks for Love, or cures for many of the diseases that plagued our ancestors and continue to plague the Mother Land. Whether it’s a smile or a kind word, show someone that you care on a daily basis.
6-They Are Generous: Nothing inspires people more than generosity. For me, generosity goes beyond just writing a check. There are so many out here looking for advice, a shoulder to cry on or someone to just be there. So, I challenge you to be generous with your wisdom, be generous with your friendship, and be generous with your prayers!
7-They Are Fearless: Now, being fearless doesn’t mean you’re not afraid of anything. Being fearless means you don’t let being afraid serve as an excuse to not do something. For example, I’m writing my first novel. It’m scared crazy, but what’s making me fearless is the fact that I’m still writing it and putting it out there nevertheless. Take the leap!
8-They Walk The Walk: Like a said before, lip service is for the birds. Put your words in to action. Remember, you can show people better than you can tell about how much you as a Black girl rock!

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To Tree or Not To Tree
I know we just finished celebrating Halloween and right now I’m in the thick of planning out our Thanksgiving menu, but earlier today the Mr asked if I wanted to go ahead and get up the tree up tomorrow? We’re are hands down Christmas people. If you’ve been reading the blog, then you know that I’ve been watching Christmas movies since last month. And now I’m cranking up the Christmas tunes.We’ve already decided that we want to move back into the apartment complex the Mr and I first stayed in, but they won’t have any units big enough for us until after Christmas. And I can wait one more month or so be free of this place. We might even be able to get an apartment in the exact same building as our old apartment! Talk about memories.Back to tree. Honestly, I haven’t put up any fall decorations because after the whole situation with the landlord/property manager and having to get code enforcement involved, I didn’t think we were going to be here long. And truth be told, although we’re have to wait on a unit at our old apartment complex, there are still some things on the list from code enforcement that need to be fixed and installed like the window. So, they have until the end of the month and then fines will start coming in. Who knows if the city shuts down this property due to lack of repairs, we end up having to move sooner than planned.But until then, the Mr just thought it would be a good idea to just go ahead and start getting ready for Christmas. You know, bring some holiday cheer into this place. And have I to say that I’m actually leaning towards going ahead and putting the tree up. It would definitely free up some closet space since my top shelf is currently half taken over by Christmas gifts, I’ve already wrapped. And with me working on my book, JJ’s therapy starting and the Mr working this might be one of the few weekends with us all at home and free to trim the tree.Do you think it’s ever too early to put up a Christmas tree?







