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  • The Wait is Over

    I know that many of you have been eagerly awaiting to find out if I’m having a girl or a boy. When I first found out I was pregnant again, I wanted to keep the sex of the baby a surprise like we did with Moo.  However, with a mountain of people breathing down my neck for the last 19 weeks, I gave in and found out.  I knew that if the ultrasound tech told my hubby he wouldn’t be able to keep his mouth shut.

    So without further delay people I am happy to announce:

    I just wish you all could have seen Jay’s face when she announced that we were having a baby boy.  He was beyond beaming.  And that was all he talked about for the rest of the day.  Talk about a proud papa.  LOL.  Still haven’t picked out any nicknames yet, but I’m sure I’ll think of one soon.

    For me, finding out that I was having a boy was a rush of mixed emotions.  I was overwhelmed because this is going to be a new adventure for me. Raising a boy is going to be very different from raising a girl.  I thought about how Moo is going to feel not having someone she can play dress up and tea party with.  However, overall I am just happy that my little boy is healthy.

    (Please excuse the lint. Black picks up everything.)

    He has all ten fingers and toes in the right place, his heart is beating good and he’s doing plenty of moving.  I’m really excited to start shopping for the new nursery.  I’m thinking a Patriots theme for sure, but the Jay says he wants a neutral sports theme instead.  (He’s not a big fan of Tom Brady).  However, we’ll see who wins this battle.  I’m already eyeing a cute little Patriots shirt and crib mobile.  Not to mention, I’m trying to track down some Patriots fabric and make a blanket with!!

    The rest of the family is excited as well.  My brother is especially happy that he is finally not the only boy in our family.  He has someone he can buy all that Ralph Lauren boy stuff he’s been eyeing for a while now.  And my mom is kinda sad that she’s not getting her twins. I have no idea what her obsession is with me having twins.  She was hoping for one of each.

    Oh well…I guess she’ll have to wait for somebody else to pop out her set of twins.  I’m pretty certain that this is going to be hit for me.  I’m certainly feeling like two is my limit.  Plus, Jay is older than me and doesn’t want to be an old man trying to chase after teenagers.  LOL.  Not to mention, college tuition is going to be thru the roof by the time Moo and our little boy are ready to go to college.

  • 19 Weeks and Counting

    Well, I have reached the 19 weeks mark and so far I’m loving it!!  Guess what my nausea and morning sickness seem to have poof and disappeared!! (Knocking on wood).  Yay, bring on the food people.  I’ve never been so happy to be able to drink a soda again in my life.  I’m telling you when you get pregnant you learn to appreciate the simple things in life for real.

    I’m noticing that my energy is slowly draining away.  I’m getting more and more out of breath just doing simple stuff like going down steps or doing the laundry.  Not to mention, I still have to chase after Moo when we’re not at Grandma’s or when the hubby is at work.  She’s a busy toddler who could care less that Mommy is preggers.  All she knows is that there’s a ball of energy inside that she just has to let out. LOL.

    At my doctor’s appointment this week we got our first ultrasound!!  I was beyond anxious to see what was going on in there.  We got to hear the baby’s heartbeat.  It was really strong and I have to admit that I cried a little.  It’s always emotional when you hear your baby’s heartbeat because you never know what can happen.

    After the ultrasound, I met with Dr. Zerkle.  He was very warm and has a likable personality.  I could tell that he really enjoys his job and loves making connections with his patients.  One of my biggest fears about choosing a OB/GYN practice was having a gender mixed staff.  However, it wasn’t so weird or awkward having a male OB/GYN down there.

    In fact, he had one of the female nurses come in the room and assist with my pelvic exam.  And since I knew what to expect, I was a lot more relaxed this time around.  It was also surprisingly quicker than the ones I had when I was pregnant with Moo.  I’m just totally falling in love with the people at the Bradford Clinic!!  I will certainly be recommending them to my friends.

    All my blood work from my last checkup came back good except for that fact that my iron level was way low.  No shocker over here though.  I’ve been anemic since I came out of the womb.  I’ve been on a different variety of iron pills and nothing has really worked well enough to keep it up.  So, I had to get more blood taken so that they could better access how serious my anemia really is.

    While I wait for the results, here’s what’s going on with my bundle of joy.  At 19 weeks, my little baby is about 8.5 ounces and 6 inches in length.  That’s about the size of an heirloom tomato.  So, now my baby weighs same amount as my cup of water.  A little scary once you think about how fragile that is.  Grow baby grow, but not to much.

    In the ultrasound, I could see that the toes and fingers were developed.  I got see the brain and how small it was.  When I was pregnant with Moo they didn’t point that out to me.  The brain is now designating areas to allow the baby to hear, smell, taste, touch and see.  So, now is a great starting point to start reading aloud and playing music to my tummy. There is plenty of amniotic fluid in there. 

    The scalp is just beginning to get covered in hair.  Since Moo had a full head of hair, I’m hoping that baby number two will have some as well.  I know that means I need to stock up on my Tums.  Hair causes heartburn and I had plenty of it with my busy bee.  It hasn’t started yet, but I’m going to be well prepared for when it does.

    Still no swelling or cankles.  Thank goodness.  I’ve been making sure to keep my feet and drink plenty of water.  This cooler weather probably has something do with it too.  I’m hoping to avoid swelling as much as possible.

    Well, we did find out the sex of the baby.  So, you will have to stay tuned to my next post coming up later on tonight to see what I’m having.  Meanwhile, cast your vote below in the comments section.

    Do you think baby numero dos is a boy or girl?

  • Thankful Thursday

    Well, folks it’s the first Thankful Thursday of the New Year!!  And I just want to start off saying that I am thankful to have been able to see 2011.  I lost a few people who I always thought would be alive and celebrating the New Year with me.  Life is so precious people.  Instead of complaining about getting another year or even another day older embrace it because tomorrow is promised to no one.

    I am thankful that Moo and I have made it back to the Queen City safely.  I enjoyed spending time with my family and being able to give my mom a break from raising my niece, but I missed my hubby and he missed me too.  Plus, I had to take Moo to the doctor this morning because she could an infection in her eye from crawling around on Grandma’s carpet and then putting her hands in her eyes.  Thankfully, it wasn’t anything too serious or that would leave her blind. It’s not contagious either.

    The down side though is that she has get eye drops in her eyes every four hours for seven days.  She absolutely had a fit when we put in the first set.  I felt so bad and awful, but ultimately I know it’s for her good.  Thankfully, she’ll be asleep when I have to put the second set in. So, she shouldn’t do too bad.

    I am thankful that tomorrow is my ultrasound.  While I’d rather just not find out what we’re having, I know that my husband will not be able to keep his mouth shut.  And I can’t really deny him the joy of knowing the sex of our baby.  After all we did go half on it. LOL.  My mom called me this evening and said that she has a gut feeling that I’m having twins.  I hope she’s wrong, but sad to say when it comes to her gut feelings she’s usually right 8 of 10 times.

    Guess we shall see if baby numero dos will cooperate.  Moo surely didn’t.  She was always curled up in a ball under my ribs somewhere.  I’m just ready to finally get see that little person who’s been hiccuping and kicking my stomach walls.

    Last but not least I am thankful for my family.  They are truly life savers.  They’ve just been awesome at keeping me laughing and believing in me and the potential that YUMMommy has.  Love you guys!!

    What do you have to be thankful for this week?

  • Things That Make Me Say Hmmm…

    I’ve thought about it and have decided to officially dub Tuesday as Things That Make Me Say Hmmm…Day here on YUMMommy.  I don’t know about you all but I see, hear and read a lot of things that make me say hmmm…on a daily basis almost.  And it’s not always in a negative or bad way either.  Sometimes, I cross an inspiring story or something that makes me pause and think.  Anyways, this past week things that have made me say hmmm…were

    1-People think Michael Vick shouldn’t have gotten jail time:  This weekend while vacationing with the fam at the beach, we were all gathered in my uncle’s suite when they starting talking about Michael Vick on Sports Center.  Of course, they brought up the fact the he had served jail time for his participation in dog fighting.  And a few of my family members got into a heated debate over whether or not he should have gotten jail time.  In my mind I was thinking hmmm…of course he should have gotten jail time.  He broke the law.

    And who gives a damn that he was one of the richest and best football players in the league?  I sure as hell didn’t.  We have enough celebrities out here now thinking they are above the law and getting away with stuff.  There are non-famous people serving same time if not more time than Vick did for the same crime.  Just because he’s famous does not give him a pass.

    Furthermore, God did not put animals on this earth for us to use maliciously.  Animals are for eating and/or companionship.  And it kills me when people try to play the race card and say that if he was white they would have given a slap  on the wrist.  I’m not so sure that I agree with that.  Dogs are man’s best friend and hold a special place in the hearts of just about 90% of Americans.

    And if you think that there are other crimes out there that are more severe but have less harsher sentences than dog fighting charges then open your mouth and say something.  Yelling at your tv will not get laws changed or amended people.  If you want injustice to stop then you have campaign and get your voice heard.  Otherwise shut up and stop complaining!!

    2-Exchanging Christmas presents: We all know that Christmas is not about receiving but giving just like the wise men gave gifts to Jesus.  However, let’s keep it real some of us really enjoy Christmas just because of the gifts.  So, my thoughts are that if you want to receive a gift, you need to give a gift.  When I hear some of my family members complaining about how they didn’t receive gifts from our family this year all I can say is hmmm…I can’t even remember the last time you gave me a gift probably because it’s been never.

    I don’t have money to blow on people who don’t even have the decency to purchase me a birthday gift, baby shower gift, etc.  So, when I see you with your lip poked out like a baby because I’m giving out gifts to those who give me gifts, I could care less.  And don’t try to play that ‘I’m broke’ role with me when you’re eating out at the Chinese buffet, the Mexican restaurant or McDonald’s every night.  I wasn’t hatched out an egg yesterday and I’m your family.  I already know your business and I know  you’re not broke!!

    3-Lady in my hometown winning $100,000 from lottery ticket: hmmm…I’m going to start coming home and buying some scratch off lottery tickets.  LOL But in all seriousness, this is like the fifth big money ticket that gas station has sold in less than two years.  That means I have good odds of winning because my hometown is about the size of my thumb.  I am seriously giving it some thought and talked it over with my mom and little brother.  They totally down in playing it with me.  Maybe, I’ll be a $100,000 or more richer by next New Year’s.

    4-People in my hometown thinking they are thugs:  Now I come from one of the smallest towns in South Carolina if not the United States.  And everybody pretty much knows everybody.  We have nothing but a handful of fast food restaurants, some pharmacies, mom & pop shops and a WalMart.  So, when I see these wanna-be New York/LA thugs from here it is the funniest and saddest thing to me.  Hmmm…this is what you choose to do with your life?

    They are not even remotely interested in getting out of this small city an seeing what else the world has to offer. They go to jail over stupid stuff like stealing $5 and smoking weed.  Honestly, what do they think is going to happen when they’re parents or grandparents whom they’re staying with dies?  Nobody else is going to take care of your jobless and education less behind.  The state is going to foreclose on your parent’s or grandparent’s house once you miss paying the property taxes and then somebody else with common sense is going to come a long and buy it at the delinquent tax auction and you’ll be homeless too.

    I’m so glad that I’ve always wanted more for myself than to live in a small town most people have near even heard of.  I have big dreams and serious goals.  Who cares if you think that makes me bourgeoisie?  I sure as heck don’t.

    So what have you seen, heard or read in the past week that made you say hmmm…?

  • Things That Make Me Say Hmmm…

    I’ve thought about it and have decided to officially dub Tuesday as Things That Make Me Say Hmmm…Day here on YUMMommy.  I don’t know about you all but I see, hear and read a lot of things that make me say hmmm…on a daily basis almost.  And it’s not always in a negative or bad way either.  Sometimes, I cross an inspiring story or something that makes me pause and think.  Anyways, this past week things that have made me say hmmm…were

    1-People think Michael Vick shouldn’t have gotten jail time:  This weekend while vacationing with the fam at the beach, we were all gathered in my uncle’s suite when they starting talking about Michael Vick on Sports Center.  Of course, they brought up the fact the he had served jail time for his participation in dog fighting.  And a few of my family members got into a heated debate over whether or not he should have gotten jail time.  In my mind I was thinking hmmm…of course he should have gotten jail time.  He broke the law.

    And who gives a damn that he was one of the richest and best football players in the league?  I sure as hell didn’t.  We have enough celebrities out here now thinking they are above the law and getting away with stuff.  There are non-famous people serving same time if not more time than Vick did for the same crime.  Just because he’s famous does not give him a pass.

    Furthermore, God did not put animals on this earth for us to use maliciously.  Animals are for eating and/or companionship.  And it kills me when people try to play the race card and say that if he was white they would have given a slap  on the wrist.  I’m not so sure that I agree with that.  Dogs are man’s best friend and hold a special place in the hearts of just about 90% of Americans.

    And if you think that there are other crimes out there that are more severe but have less harsher sentences than dog fighting charges then open your mouth and say something.  Yelling at your tv will not get laws changed or amended people.  If you want injustice to stop then you have campaign and get your voice heard.  Otherwise shut up and stop complaining!!

    2-Exchanging Christmas presents: We all know that Christmas is not about receiving but giving just like the wise men gave gifts to Jesus.  However, let’s keep it real some of us really enjoy Christmas just because of the gifts.  So, my thoughts are that if you want to receive a gift, you need to give a gift.  When I hear some of my family members complaining about how they didn’t receive gifts from our family this year all I can say is hmmm…I can’t even remember the last time you gave me a gift probably because it’s been never.

    I don’t have money to blow on people who don’t even have the decency to purchase me a birthday gift, baby shower gift, etc.  So, when I see you with your lip poked out like a baby because I’m giving out gifts to those who give me gifts, I could care less.  And don’t try to play that ‘I’m broke’ role with me when you’re eating out at the Chinese buffet, the Mexican restaurant or McDonald’s every night.  I wasn’t hatched out an egg yesterday and I’m your family.  I already know your business and I know  you’re not broke!!

    3-Lady in my hometown winning $100,000 from lottery ticket: hmmm…I’m going to start coming home and buying some scratch off lottery tickets.  LOL But in all seriousness, this is like the fifth big money ticket that gas station has sold in less than two years.  That means I have good odds of winning because my hometown is about the size of my thumb.  I am seriously giving it some thought and talked it over with my mom and little brother.  They totally down in playing it with me.  Maybe, I’ll be a $100,000 or more richer by next New Year’s.

    4-People in my hometown thinking they are thugs:  Now I come from one of the smallest towns in South Carolina if not the United States.  And everybody pretty much knows everybody.  We have nothing but a handful of fast food restaurants, some pharmacies, mom & pop shops and a WalMart.  So, when I see these wanna-be New York/LA thugs from here it is the funniest and saddest thing to me.  Hmmm…this is what you choose to do with your life?

    They are not even remotely interested in getting out of this small city an seeing what else the world has to offer. They go to jail over stupid stuff like stealing $5 and smoking weed.  Honestly, what do they think is going to happen when they’re parents or grandparents whom they’re staying with dies?  Nobody else is going to take care of your jobless and education less behind.  The state is going to foreclose on your parent’s or grandparent’s house once you miss paying the property taxes and then somebody else with common sense is going to come a long and buy it at the delinquent tax auction and you’ll be homeless too.

    I’m so glad that I’ve always wanted more for myself than to live in a small town most people have near even heard of.  I have big dreams and serious goals.  Who cares if you think that makes me bourgeoisie?  I sure as heck don’t.

    So what have you seen, heard or read in the past week that made you say hmmm…?

  • My Weekend Wrapup

    This weekend it was all about spending time with family. My living uncle and his wife invited us down to the beach to stay in one of their rooms at the Bluegreen Harbour Lights Resort. It was amazing. Friday evening we lounged around and had dinner. I got quite a few stares at my belly. One lady at the restaurant even asked if I was carrying twins. (Don’t jinx me.)

    This was the first time we would be celebrating the New Year out of town. However, every tradition needs a little spicing up every do often. By nine o’clock I was running low energy. Pregnancy and having a two year old can really take a lot out of you. Thank goodness for a large family. Plenty of future babysitters once baby number two comes. LOL

    So my baby sister and I decided we’d rather watch the different ball drops and specials on tv. We also wanted to give my mom some space to hang out with other adults her age. Plus, the beach is a wild place after dark. Just Google bike week and you will see what I mean. Then, you factor in that we had two young kids- Moo and my niece. Yea, it was best to keep them in.

    Back the room we decided to watch The Santa Clause 3. I have no idea why but it seemed like a good idea. It put Moo to sleep halfway through. Then I ended up falling asleep ten minutes before the ball drop. Not going to lie, I was disappointed that I couldn’t stay awake. Saturday we were off to the grocery store to get those black eye peas. Gotta have those.

    I also got more gifts for next Xmas. I know it sounds crazy to be already thinking about Christmas and it just passed.  But by Christmas this year I will have two kids under the age of four tagging along my heels.  And I don’t see myself trying to fight my way through a crowded mall or stores.  Dinner Saturday night was awesome.  We all got together in my uncle’s suite and ate.

    Then I went back to our suite because I was drained.  And I could feel myself getting frustrated.  This pregnancy has my hormones out of whack.  I’m on an up and down rollercoaster all day.  My mom’s been noticing and vocalizing her concerns.  I’m seriously glad that I’m going to my doctor Friday and we’ll be going over the results of my blood work as well as my ultrasound pics.

    Personally, I think this pregnancy has caused an imbalance or is sucking up all my nutrients.  Not looking forward to going back on this Repliva for my anemia.  However, I can’t go on flipping on people.  It’s so hard to not be in control when it comes to this because I’m such a control freak.  I was in such a crappy mood that I didn’t even care enough to pretend to be interested in my mom’s purchases from Bath and Body Works.  Luckily she didn’t take it personal and even put Moo to sleep for me.  Have mentioned how much I love her?

    Sunday morning we enjoyed a great breakfast at Harry’s Breakfast Pancakes.  It was a very homey and comfortable restaurant.  We even met Harry, the owner.  He gave Moo and my niece free grits to accompany their meals.  This was great because Moo is a huge grit lover.  She’s eats them just about everyday unless we’re out or I’m too lazy to make them right.  The hubby has been demoted from grit making duty after he set a bowl of them on fire in the microwave.

    Harry (the older man in the left hand pic on their website) is a very nice man.  He sat and told us his story about how his parents brought him and his siblings to America when they were almost teenagers.  He also revealed to us that he’s been suffering with cancer for 3 to 5 years now.  Because he didn’t go to the doctor right away when he started getting sick they can’t be sure how long or when he first got it.  However, he did have one successful surgery and will be starting radiation treatment this month.

    He reminded me so much of my uncle Joe.  We have been keeping him in our prayers every night since.  I can’t wait to go back and see how the radiation works out.  I truly feel like Uncle Joe was trying to send me a sign.  It’s crazy and I can’t explain it but I trust my gut.

    After leaving the restaurant we went for a walk on the beach.  It was windy and cold as walked down.  Once our feet hit the sand it seemed degrees warmer and the wind even died down a bit.  Moo was thrilled because she loves all things water and sand.  We collected a purse full of great shells.  Since the tide was low we got to dig thru all the shells that were covered by water when we went this summer.

    Moo was having a blast. And the salt water did wonders for opening up her sinus.  It was like free nasal spray.  LOL.  And surprisingly I didn’t get sick this time.  I’ve always gotten sick whenever I went to the beach.  Must be the pregnancy.  I enjoyed watching Moo try to chase after the seagulls.

    It just amazes me at how much she has grown up.  Honestly, I’m just thankful that she can run and walk.  Last year, we were worried sick about her needing leg braces in order to just be able to take her first steps. Thank goodness for faith because I prayed like crazy.  And here she is a running machine and bubbly ball of fun.

    At last it was time for us to leave us leave.  Although, I had a few rough spots and the hubby couldn’t make it, but still I wanted to stay a few extra days.  I love being around my family and am sad to be heading back to my own home later on this week.

    So, did you go out of town this New Year’s weekend?  Where did you go?

  • My Weekend Wrapup

    This weekend it was all about spending time with family. My living uncle and his wife invited us down to the beach to stay in one of their rooms at the Bluegreen Harbour Lights Resort. It was amazing. Friday evening we lounged around and had dinner. I got quite a few stares at my belly. One lady at the restaurant even asked if I was carrying twins. (Don’t jinx me.)

    This was the first time we would be celebrating the New Year out of town. However, every tradition needs a little spicing up every do often. By nine o’clock I was running low energy. Pregnancy and having a two year old can really take a lot out of you. Thank goodness for a large family. Plenty of future babysitters once baby number two comes. LOL

    So my baby sister and I decided we’d rather watch the different ball drops and specials on tv. We also wanted to give my mom some space to hang out with other adults her age. Plus, the beach is a wild place after dark. Just Google bike week and you will see what I mean. Then, you factor in that we had two young kids- Moo and my niece. Yea, it was best to keep them in.

    Back the room we decided to watch The Santa Clause 3. I have no idea why but it seemed like a good idea. It put Moo to sleep halfway through. Then I ended up falling asleep ten minutes before the ball drop. Not going to lie, I was disappointed that I couldn’t stay awake. Saturday we were off to the grocery store to get those black eye peas. Gotta have those.

    I also got more gifts for next Xmas. I know it sounds crazy to be already thinking about Christmas and it just passed.  But by Christmas this year I will have two kids under the age of four tagging along my heels.  And I don’t see myself trying to fight my way through a crowded mall or stores.  Dinner Saturday night was awesome.  We all got together in my uncle’s suite and ate.

    Then I went back to our suite because I was drained.  And I could feel myself getting frustrated.  This pregnancy has my hormones out of whack.  I’m on an up and down rollercoaster all day.  My mom’s been noticing and vocalizing her concerns.  I’m seriously glad that I’m going to my doctor Friday and we’ll be going over the results of my blood work as well as my ultrasound pics.

    Personally, I think this pregnancy has caused an imbalance or is sucking up all my nutrients.  Not looking forward to going back on this Repliva for my anemia.  However, I can’t go on flipping on people.  It’s so hard to not be in control when it comes to this because I’m such a control freak.  I was in such a crappy mood that I didn’t even care enough to pretend to be interested in my mom’s purchases from Bath and Body Works.  Luckily she didn’t take it personal and even put Moo to sleep for me.  Have mentioned how much I love her?

    Sunday morning we enjoyed a great breakfast at Harry’s Breakfast Pancakes.  It was a very homey and comfortable restaurant.  We even met Harry, the owner.  He gave Moo and my niece free grits to accompany their meals.  This was great because Moo is a huge grit lover.  She’s eats them just about everyday unless we’re out or I’m too lazy to make them right.  The hubby has been demoted from grit making duty after he set a bowl of them on fire in the microwave.

    Harry (the older man in the left hand pic on their website) is a very nice man.  He sat and told us his story about how his parents brought him and his siblings to America when they were almost teenagers.  He also revealed to us that he’s been suffering with cancer for 3 to 5 years now.  Because he didn’t go to the doctor right away when he started getting sick they can’t be sure how long or when he first got it.  However, he did have one successful surgery and will be starting radiation treatment this month.

    He reminded me so much of my uncle Joe.  We have been keeping him in our prayers every night since.  I can’t wait to go back and see how the radiation works out.  I truly feel like Uncle Joe was trying to send me a sign.  It’s crazy and I can’t explain it but I trust my gut.

    After leaving the restaurant we went for a walk on the beach.  It was windy and cold as walked down.  Once our feet hit the sand it seemed degrees warmer and the wind even died down a bit.  Moo was thrilled because she loves all things water and sand.  We collected a purse full of great shells.  Since the tide was low we got to dig thru all the shells that were covered by water when we went this summer.

    Moo was having a blast. And the salt water did wonders for opening up her sinus.  It was like free nasal spray.  LOL.  And surprisingly I didn’t get sick this time.  I’ve always gotten sick whenever I went to the beach.  Must be the pregnancy.  I enjoyed watching Moo try to chase after the seagulls.

    It just amazes me at how much she has grown up.  Honestly, I’m just thankful that she can run and walk.  Last year, we were worried sick about her needing leg braces in order to just be able to take her first steps. Thank goodness for faith because I prayed like crazy.  And here she is a running machine and bubbly ball of fun.

    At last it was time for us to leave us leave.  Although, I had a few rough spots and the hubby couldn’t make it, but still I wanted to stay a few extra days.  I love being around my family and am sad to be heading back to my own home later on this week.

    So, did you go out of town this New Year’s weekend?  Where did you go?

  • Happy 2011

    Happy 2011! Yes, another year is upon us. I celebrated the New Year snuggled up with my Moo. I told we would both stay awake to at least see the ball drop on tv. However, being in the comforts of our lovely suite here at the Harbour Lights Resort that I feel asleep 10 minutes before midnight.

    And today I have been enjoying my family and thinking about how much better this year is going to be. I honestly haven’t made any resolutions. I am just determined to take everything to the next level and get rid of all the negatives. I am in such a different place right now in my life. My struggles from last year have taught me what the important things in life are.

    I hope that you all enjoyed bringing in the New Year with your loved ones. Did you make any resolutions for 2011? And how did you bring on the New Year?

  • Another Year Bites the Dust

    Happy New Year’s Eve everyone!!  Yay, we have all made it to the end of 2010.  That in and of itself is a great blessing.  I just want to say thank you again to everyone who has stuck with me on this blogging journey.  I’ve had the chance to make some connections that will last me a life time and then some.

    Throughout 2010, I’ve found myself touch by at least post that each of you have written.  In some way shape or form you all have helped me to become a better person than I was at the start of this year.  I came into 2010 feeling slightly sorry for the hand that I was dealt and frustrated at having to be a single mom.  And now I’m ending this year fearless and married.  I can’t be for sure what the future holds for me because I’m not God.

    However, I do know that I’m going to continue blogging and continue working hard to better myself.  I’m not going to let people or the negative situations around me deter me from reaching my dreams and goals.  I’m going into 2011 with nothing but love and faith.  And I wish each and every one of you the same!!

    See you in 2011!!

  • Thankful Thursday

    It’s Thankful Thursday here at YUMMommy and just want to say that I am very much looking forward to 2011.  I am naming and claiming nothing but success and happiness for myself, my loved ones and you all!!  If we work together to build each other up, then we can all get to where we need and want to be with our respective projects a lot faster than if we work separately.  So, I’d like to encourage all bloggers to spread the love and the wealth (of knowledge) to their fellow bloggers in 2011.  That is my challenge to each of you.

    So this Thursday, I am thankful for having had an amazing Christmas holiday with my family and loved ones.  It’s always a blessing to be able to all get together and fellowship.  We all know that tomorrow is not promised to any woman or man or child for that matter.  Anything can happen at any minute.  Therefore, it’s most important to cherish and make the best out of the time you do get to spend with your loved ones.

    I am also thankful to my family for showering Moo with lots of gifts!!  Surprisingly, she didn’t get too many toys.  My family did a great job of incorporating things that will really come in handy like new clothes, new shoes, etc.  I am thankful that my family also got me and the hubs things that we needed like kitchen appliances, bath robes, and that sort of stuff.

    I am thankful that our snow lasted just long enough for us to enjoy it a few days and melt away for the New Year.  The last of it officially melted away this afternoon.  I’m glad that roads remained clear enough for us to get out and visit family and do some Christmas shopping for next year!!  I’m thankful that God enabled us to go ahead and plan accordingly and get most of the gifts out of the way.

    I am thankful that the hubs is finally starting to come to his senses about our disagreement from Christmas.  I’m thankful that I was able to go back and better explain my position and how I felt in a more calm and collected way.  Even though he still disagrees we have decided to agree to disagree on this particular issue.  He’s even open to starting a little therapy once a week.

    This is a huge milestone in our relationship since he’s been a little standoffish about therapy in the past.  Most minorities have this view of therapy as being a ‘whites only’ thing, but that is not true.  Therapy is not a color thing, but a tool that can save and prolong a lot of marriages as well as help a lot of people heal from their pasts.  So, I’m already looking and asking around for good therapists in our area.  I want our marriage to be as healthy as it can be and for us to continue moving forward instead of backwards.

    I am thankful to have such a wonderful mom who has been great at putting Moo to bed almost every night that we have been here.  This pregnancy really has my hormones and patience out of whack!!  Thank God that she understands I need a break and is willing to give me one.  I love her so much and will never be able to fully repay her for all that she has done but I’m going to try.

    Last but not least, I am thankful to each and everyone of you who has joined me on this journey and keeps coming back to read my posts.  I really appreciate the support, advice, motivation, inspiration and confidence.  Thank you so much for helping YUMMommy get to where it is now.  I promise that there are bigger and better things to come in the New Year if you stick around and continue to ride with me!!

    Love you guys!!  What do you have to be thankful for today?